Basic Things to Make Your Relationship Healthy and Happy

1. Do not over love, over care, and try to control him, it will definitely exhaust him and scare him away
2. Respect his feelings and give him the time and space he wants. Do not impose your decisions and desires on him all the time
3. Do not throw tantrums all the time and avoid being strict
4. Do not make all the things in your life about him. Have me-time, some hobbies, opinions, and free time with friends
5. I understand past experience can create trust issues in the present relationship, but keep one thing in mind that there is no relationship without trust. If you can forgive him for past mistakes, you must start trusting him
6. Don't seek his attention all the time. Don't make everything about you. Try to understand the importance of other people in his life too. You can be on the second, or the third number on his priority list after his sister or best friend but that doesn't make you less important in his life
7. Do not compare yourself with his sister and don't be jealous of her. She is her family, and it's ok to support the family financially and emotionally. I understand ladies you want all the eggs in your basket, but it's an actually good sign that a guy cares about his mother and sister
8. Don't be clingy and available all the time. Let him miss you and come close to you. (P.S. Doesn't mean you abandoned him)
9. Respect him and his decisions. Keep one thing in mind that there is no relationship without love, respect, and understanding. You can't be rigid and stiff all the time and expect your loved one to make all the compromises
10. Try to be a person with whom he doesn't hesitate to share his problems or desires. He doesn't have to think twice before telling you anything that might be it will make you angry. Don't be angry over small things. Try to adopt healthy communication and instead of giving silent treatment communicate your feelings. After all, he is not a mind reader. Listen to their explanation and try to understand. Do not listen to the answer; listen to understand
11. No one is perfect everybody makes a mistake. After an apology, you can't expect from the other person to forgive you instantly and make things square with you. Try to be patient and give him time to reflect and try not to repeat the mistakes and things that pissed him off

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